The follow post was sent to me by a good friend. After reading it I realized just how correct he is on his feelings towards state fairs. I am one of those quilty parents that has never taken the time to bring my kids to the state fair for reasons none other than I believe I have better things to do and don’t take the time.
I think this post goes hand in hand with the direction our country needs to and will go in the coming years. Our whole society needs to slow down a bit and get back to the basic simple things in life. I had a friend tell me that he was going to the fair with his kids this year because he also thought it was important for them to experience it. He made a comment that really hit me hard, he said that when he was a kid the only event he and his family looked forward to was the state fair!!! He is only 35 years old.
Think about that for a minute. A kid only looking forward to one event the entire year. Not because he liked it so much but because his parents didn’t run him around to soccer, baseball, football, basketball, cub scouts, dance class, etc the whole rest of the year!!! They found simple ways to stay home, do things with family and friends and go to one big event every year. Now he remebers those times very well because he does not have a whole bunch of meaningless running around to cloud his memory. This friend of mine is a very good and normal person, was a good high school athlete, has a good job and is a good husband and father. It makes me think that maybe we do way to much activity planning and doing for our children. I believe this is something that will need to change in the future and things like the state fair will become bigger parts of our life in the future.
Enjoy the following post and thanks for your thoughts Andy.
Since Erik has been letting his blogging duties slide; I thought that I would contribute this week.
My sons and I went to the South Dakota State Fair on Friday and stayed until Sunday afternoon. This isn’t the first time I’ve been to the fair but it was the first time that I’ve taken my sons and it was the first time we have entered exhibits.
Now, one 288 pound market gilt does not a farm make; but, to my ten year old son Patrick and his brothers, it does make the summer. This is his second year in 4-H and it makes me proud that he loves it so much. My other two sons, Garrett, age 8 and Marshall, age 7, did not make the age deadline for this year, but worked just as hard as their brother and helped him with his swine projects.
The part of the fair that I want to talk about is what the fair is all about: It’s about organizing with your friends to get the projects trailer’d and up to the fair. It’s helping each other to make sure that everyone has their bases covered. It’s about watching our kids talk about the same things and do the same things as their parents and I did 25-30 years ago.
It’s seeing your old college friends and their kids, talking about the old times, running into friends you haven’t seen for years, old friends letting you stay at their house for two days (Thanks Cooter), and talking about doing it again next year.
It’s wandering to the Freedom Stage to hear Riders in the Sky (for free), sitting down, and having a good friend tap you on the shoulder to invite you to sit with his family. It’s about people who have been camping in the same spot for years and years and seeing the same family next to them every year.
It’s watching my eager kids arrive and then carrying my sleepy kids to car at the end of the day. It’s the faces my kids make when a carnival ride turns their stomach and that foot-long corndog comes back to see daylight again. Speaking of faces, the priceless looks on my sons faces when they walked out of the tent that houses The World’s Smallest Woman, was something I’ll never forget.
It’s showing the kids the displays in each of the buildings and teaching them that the fair isn’t just about carnivals and food, but about people. People showing us what they can do, make, learn, build, design, create, craft, invent, grow, raise, and teach.
There are a lot of things that are conspiring against the fair: the economy, early (and too eager) school districts and their start dates, migration from the farms, ranches, and rural parts of the state, and legislators who’s priorities are demonizing all things they don’t understand (and promoting areas in the state that suck the rest of us dry). So yes; “Take In The Big One” and make sure that next year, you get to the fair for at least one day.
If you didn’t make it to the South Dakota State Fair this year or the past few years, you’re missing a great way to cap off the summer. Make sure that you and your kids are a part of it next year.
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